And most of the failures in parent-child relationships, from my observation, begin when the child begins to acquire a mind and a will of its own, to make independent decisions and to question the omnipotence or the wisdom of the parent.
SYDNEY J. HARRISNobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
More Sydney J. Harris Quotes
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The best combination of parents consists of a father who is gentle beneath his firmness, and a mother who is firm beneath her gentleness.
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It is not only useless, it is harmful, to believe in oneself until one truly knows oneself. And to know oneself means to accept our moments of insanity, of eccentricity, of childishness and blindness.
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Marriages we regard as the happiest are those in which each of the partners believes he or she got the best of it.
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Many people know how to work hard; many others know how to play well; but the rarest talent in the world is the ability to introduce elements of playfulness into work, and to put some constructive labor into our leisure.
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Intolerance is the most socially acceptable form of egotism, for it permits us to assume superiority without personal boasting.
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Good teaching must be slow enough so that it is not confusing, and fast enough so that it is not boring.
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The main discomfort in being a middle-of-the-roader is that you get sideswiped by partisans going in both directions.
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A ‘penchant for telling the truth’ can cripple a candidates chances faster than being caught in flagrante delicto with the governor’s wife.
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It’s odd, and a little unsettling, to reflect upon the fact that English is the only major language in which “I” is capitalized; in many other languages “You” is capitalized and the “i” is lower case.” —
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The pessimist sees only the tunnel; the optimist sees the light at the end of the tunnel; the realist sees the tunnel and the light – and the next tunnel.
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There’s no point in burying a hatchet if you’re going to put up a marker on the site.
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A cynic is not merely one who reads bitter lessons from the past, his is also one who is permanently disappointed in the future.
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An idealist believes the short run doesn’t count. A cynic believes the long run doesn’t matter.
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Nobody really knows how smart or talented he is until he finds the incentives to use himself to the fullest. God has given us more than we know what to do with.
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Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better.
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