Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
ROLLO MAYPeople attain worth and dignity by the multitude of decisions they make from day by day. These decisions require courage.
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Humor is the healthy way of feeling “distance” between one’s self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one’s problem with perspective.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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People only change when it becomes too dangerous to stay the way they are.
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Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us?
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Hate is not the opposite of love; apathy is.
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What if imagination and art are not frosting at all, but the fountainhead of human experience?
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There is no authentic inner freedom that does not, sooner or later, also affect and change human history.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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However it may be confounded or covered up or counterfeited, this elemental capacity to fight against injustice remains the distinguishing characteristic of human beings.
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Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.
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The mature person becomes able to differentiate feelings into as many nuances, strong and passionate experiences, or delicate and sensitive ones, as in the different passages of music in a symphony. Unfortunately, many of us have feelings limited like notes in a bugle call.
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Deeds of violence in our society are performed largely by those trying to establish their self-esteem, to defend their self-image, and to demonstrate that they, too, are significant.
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To believe fully and at the same moment to have doubts is not at all a contradiction: it presupposes a greater respect for truth, an awareness that truth always goes beyond anything that can be said or done at any given moment.
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