Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable.
ROLLO MAYHumor is the healthy way of feeling “distance” between one’s self and the problem, a way of standing off and looking at one’s problem with perspective.
More Rollo May Quotes
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Creativity is neither the product of neurosis nor simple talent, but an intense courageous encounter with the Gods.
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I learned that healing and cure are active processes in which I myself needed to participate.
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Competitive individualism militates against the experience of community, and that lack of community is a centrally important factor in contemporaneous anxiety.
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The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.
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Therapy isn’t curing somebody of something; it is a means of helping a person explore himself, his life, his consciousness. My purpose as a therapist is to find out what it means to be human.
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The creative act arises out of the struggle of human beings with and against that which limits them.
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So courage makes possible all the psychological virtues. Without courage other values wither away into mere facsimiles of virtue.
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Freedom does not come automatically; it is achieved. And it is not gained in a single bound; it must be achieved each day.
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The danger always exists that our technology will serve as a buffer between us and nature, a block between us and the deeper dimensions of our own experience.
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One of the easiest ways to be irresponsible about power is to forget you have it.
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There can be no stronger proof of the impoverishment of our contemporary culture than the popular – though profoundly mistaken – definition of myth as falsehood.
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A person can meet anxiety to the extent that his values are stronger than the threat.
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The acorn becomes an oak by means of automatic growth; no commitment is necessary. The kitten similarly becomes a cat on the basis of instinct. Nature and being are identical in creatures like them. But a man or woman becomes fully human only by his or her choices and his or her commitment to them.
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One does not become fully human painlessly.
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A mien which seems to say, “You are looking at somebody now.” For this inner sense of worth that comes with being in love does not seem to depend essentially on whether the love is returned or not.
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