It’s a strange situation, but people will pay your fare to get you to go and tell them how to be happy.
QUENTIN CRISPHealth consists of having the same diseases as one’s neighbors.
More Quentin Crisp Quotes
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While I have very little to say in favor of sex (it’s vastly overrated, it’s frequently unnecessary, and it’s messy), it is greatly to be preferred to the interminable torments of romantic agony through which two people tear one another limb from limb while professing altruistic devotion.
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Development of character consists solely in moving toward self-sufficiency.
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It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at the last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn’t give enough.
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Mainstream people dislike homosexuality because they can’t help concentrating on what homosexual men do to one another. And when you contemplate what people do, you think of yourself doing it. And they don’t like that. That’s the famous joke:
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An autobiography is an obituary in serial form with the last installment missing.
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The curiosity of the neighbors about you, is a tribute to your individuality, and you should encourage it
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It may be true that artists adopt a flamboyant appearance, but it’s also true that people who look funny get stuck with the arts.
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The more people one has to love, the more one’s capacity to love stretches.
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What would you be like if you were the only person in the world? If you want to be truly happy you must be that person.
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The worst part of being gay in the twentieth century is all that damn disco music to which one has to listen.
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If you describe things as better than they are, you are considered to be a romantic; if you describe things as worse than they are, you will be called a realist; and if you describe things exactly as they are, you will be thought of as a satirist.
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Nothing in our culture, not even home computers, is more overrated than the epidermal felicity of two featherless bipeds in desperate congress.
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Why get married? For human beings, marriage is such an unnatural state. If you want monogamy, it has been said, you should marry a swan.
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The British do not expect happiness. I had the impression, all the time that I lived there, that they do not want to be happy; they want to be right.
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I don’t think you can really be proud of being gay because it isn’t something you’ve done. You can only be proud of not being ashamed.
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Life was a funny thing that happened to me on the way to the grave.
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I recommend limiting one’s involvement in other people’s lives to a pleasantly scant minimum. This may seem too stoical a position in these madly passionate times, but madly passionate people rarely make good on their madly passionate promises.
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The trouble with European cities is that they are drenched in their history, almost all of which is terrible.
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You will survive if you believe in yourself.
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Believe in fate, but lean forward where fate can see you.
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Never get involved with someone who wants to change you
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To my disappointment I now realized that to know all is not to forgive all. It is to despise everybody.
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If a man were to look over the fence on one side of his garden and observe that the neighbor on his left had laid his garden path round a central lawn; and were to look over the fence on the other side of his garden and observe that the neighbor on his right had laid his path down the middle of the lawn.
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Neither look forward where there is doubt nor backward where there is regret.
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The consuming desire of most human beings is deliberately to plant their whole life in the hands of some other person. I would describe this method of searching for happiness as immature. Development of character consists solely in moving toward self-sufficiency.
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Sex is the last refuge of the miserable.
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