Since death is certain and the time of death is uncertain, what is the most important thing?
PEMA CHODRONUsually we think that brave people have no fear. The truth is that they are intimate with fear.
More Pema Chodron Quotes
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Appreciate everything, even the ordinary. Especially the ordinary.
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The central question of a warrior’s training is not how we avoid uncertainty and fear but how we relate to discomfort.
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Sticking with that uncertainty, getting the knack of relaxing in the midst of chaos, learning not to panic-this is the spiritual path.
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Feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back.
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We can let the circumstances of our lives harden us so that we become increasingly resentful and afraid, or we can let them soften us and make us kinder and more open to what scares us. We always have this choice.
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Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.
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So many of us start along the spiritual path because we are suffering. But you must realize that for real healing to occur, there must first be deep compassion for yourself, especially the parts of yourself you dislike or consider ugly.
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Obstacles are our friends: they teach us where we’re stuck.
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You are the sky. Everything else – it’s just the weather.
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The best spiritual instruction is when you wake up in the morning and say, ‘I wonder what’s going to happen today.’ And then carry that kind of curiosity through your life.
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Never give up on yourself. Then you will never give up on others.
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By the way that we think and by the way that we believe in things, in that way our world is created.
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We work on ourselves in order to help others, but also we help others in order to work on ourselves.
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The future is completely open and we are writing it moment to moment.
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Don’t worry about achieving. Don’t worry about perfection. Just be there each moment as best you can.
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