a happy marriage can be a vexation, that it’s a contract best renewed and renewed again, even quietly and privately—even alone.
MICHELLE OBAMAEverything was not lost. This was the message we needed to carry forward. It’s what I truly believed. It wasn’t ideal, but it was our reality—the world as it is. We needed now to be resolute, to keep our feet pointed in the direction of progress.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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You don’t really know how attached you are until you move away, until you’ve experienced what it means to be dislodged, a cork floating on the ocean of another place.
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What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
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I’ve learned that it’s harder to hate up close.
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The easiest way to disregard a woman’s voice is to package her as a scold.
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Look how I’m managing, I wanted to say in those moments, to my audience of no one. Does everyone see that I’m pulling this off?
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The lesson being that in life you control what you can.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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When they go low, we go high.
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They didn’t own a house. We were their investment, me and Craig. Everything went into us.
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People who are truly strong lift others up. People who are truly powerful bring others together.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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There’s a power in allowing yourself to be known and heard, in owning your unique story, in using your authentic voice. And there’s a grace in being willing to know and hear others.
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It felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
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It’s easier to hold onto your own stereotypes and misconceptions, it makes you feel justified in your own ignorance. That’s America. So the challenge for us is, are we ready for change?
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I have had to learn that my voice has value. And if I don’t use it, what’s the point of being in the room?
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[Y]ou may live in the world as it is, but you can still work to create the world as it should be.
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You find ways to adapt. If you’re in it forever, there’s really no choice.
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You’ve got to be twice as good to get half as far.
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Good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt.
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I began to understand that his version of hope reached far beyond mine: It was one thing to get yourself out of a stick place, I realized. It was another thing entirely to try and get the place itself unstuck.
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This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path–the my-isn’t-that-impressive- path– and keep you there for a long time.
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Bullies were scared people hiding inside scary people.
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When you’re First Lady, America shows itself to you in its extremes.
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I like the idea of being rigorous about friendship.
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I hate diversity workshops. Real change comes from having enough comfort to be really honest and say something very uncomfortable.
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Life was teaching me that progress and change happen slowly. Not in two years, four years, or even a lifetime. We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
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