It’s remarkable how a stereotype functions as an actual trap. How many angry black women have been caught in the circular logic of that phrase? When you aren’t being listened to, why wouldn’t you get louder? If you’re written off as angry or emotional, doesn’t that just cause more of the same?
MICHELLE OBAMAThis may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path–the my-isn’t-that-impressive- path– and keep you there for a long time.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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Focus on what you can control. Be a good person every day. Vote. Read. Treat one another kindly. Follow the law. Don’t tweet nasty stuff.
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there’s no straight line between effort and reward.
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It hurts to live after someone has died. It just does.
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Am I good enough? Yes, I am.
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Now that I’m an adult, I realize that kids know at a very young age when they’re being devalued, when adults aren’t invested enough to help them learn. Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t bad kids. They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances.
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Time, as far as my father was concerned, was a gift you gave to other people.
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What I notice about men, all men, is that their order is me, my family, God is in there somewhere, but me is first.
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They didn’t own a house. We were their investment, me and Craig. Everything went into us.
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Good relationships feel good. They feel right. They don’t hurt.
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The punches hurt, even if I understood that they had little to do with who I really was as a person.
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America, our moment is now, Barack said. Our moment is now.
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Fulfillment, I’m sure, struck her as a rich person’s conceit.
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You’ve got to be twice as good to get half as far.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result. It’s vulnerability that breeds with self-doubt and then is escalated, often deliberately, by fear.
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I was determined to be someone who told the truth, using my voice to lift up the voiceless when I could, and to not disappear on people in need. I understood that when I showed up somewhere,
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