What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
MICHELLE OBAMAI look back on the discomfort of that moment now and recognize the more universal challenge of squaring who you are with where you come from and where you want to go.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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You find ways to adapt. If you’re in it forever, there’s really no choice.
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When they go low, we go high.
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It felt perverse, how the world just carried on. How everyone was still here, except for my Suzanne.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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You don’t really know how attached you are until you move away, until you’ve experienced what it means to be dislodged, a cork floating on the ocean of another place.
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The punches hurt, even if I understood that they had little to do with who I really was as a person.
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It’s remarkable how a stereotype functions as an actual trap. How many angry black women have been caught in the circular logic of that phrase? When you aren’t being listened to, why wouldn’t you get louder? If you’re written off as angry or emotional, doesn’t that just cause more of the same?
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We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
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If you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.
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The realities are that, you know, as a black man, you know, Barack can get shot going to the gas station, you know.
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America, our moment is now, Barack said. Our moment is now.
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Even if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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But as I’ve said, failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result. And for me, it felt like that’s exactly what she was planting—a suggestion of failure long before I’d even tried to succeed.
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Focus on what you can control. Be a good person every day. Vote. Read. Treat one another kindly. Follow the law. Don’t tweet nasty stuff.
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It was possible, I knew, to live on two planes at once—to have one’s feet planted in reality but pointed in the direction of progress.
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