For me, marriage was more like a full-on merger, a reconfiguring of two lives into one, with the well-being of a family taking precedence over any one agenda or goal.
MICHELLE OBAMAFulfillment, I’m sure, struck her as a rich person’s conceit.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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I just wanted to achieve. Or maybe I didn’t want to be dismissed as incapable of achievement.
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As a kid, you learn to measure long before you understand the size or value of anything. Eventually, if you’re lucky, you learn that you’ve been measuring all wrong.
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Inspiration on its own was shallow; you had to back it up with hard work.
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Am I good enough? Yes, I am.
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For me, becoming isn’t about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn’t end.
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I grew up with a disabled dad in a too-small house with not much money in a starting-to-fail neighborhood, and I also grew up surrounded by love and music in a diverse city in a country where an education can take you far. I had nothing or I had everything. It depends on which way you want to tell it.
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I didn’t want them ever to believe that life began when the man of the house arrived home. We didn’t wait for Dad. It was his job now to catch up with us.
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We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
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You find ways to adapt. If you’re in it forever, there’s really no choice.
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What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.
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You’ve got to be twice as good to get half as far.
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Focus on what you can control. Be a good person every day. Vote. Read. Treat one another kindly. Follow the law. Don’t tweet nasty stuff.
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Do we settle for the world as it is, or do we work for the world as it should be?
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This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path—the my-isn’t-that-impressive path—and keep you there for a long time.
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Marriage, he told me early on, struck him as an unnecessary and overhyped convention.
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