It’s remarkable how a stereotype functions as an actual trap. How many angry black women have been caught in the circular logic of that phrase? When you aren’t being listened to, why wouldn’t you get louder? If you’re written off as angry or emotional, doesn’t that just cause more of the same?
MICHELLE OBAMAHearing them, I realized that they weren’t at all smarter than the rest of us. They were simply emboldened, floating on an ancient tide of superiority, buoyed by the fact that history had never told them anything different.
More Michelle Obama Quotes
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We were planting seeds of change, the fruit of which we might never see. We had to be patient.
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failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result.
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[Y]ou may live in the world as it is, but you can still work to create the world as it should be.
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He’s always asking: ‘Is that new? I haven’t seen that before.’ It’s like, Why don’t you mind your own business? Solve world hunger. Get out of my closet.
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there’s no straight line between effort and reward.
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This may be the fundamental problem with caring a lot about what others think: It can put you on the established path—the my-isn’t-that-impressive path—and keep you there for a long time.
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Your story is what you have, what you will always have. It is something to own.
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Failure is a feeling long before it becomes an actual result
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You’ve got to be twice as good to get half as far.
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At fifty-four, I am still in progress, and I hope that I always will be.
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If you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.
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When you’re First Lady, America shows itself to you in its extremes.
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My most important title is still mom-in-chief. My daughters are still the heart of my heart and the center of my world.
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Even if we didn’t know the context, we were instructed to remember that context existed. Everyone on earth, they’d tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.
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The easiest way to disregard a woman’s voice is to package her as a scold.
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