But come. No explaining or mending. Be beside me somewhere.
JONATHAN SAFRAN FOERWe spent our lives making livings.
More Jonathan Safran Foer Quotes
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In truth I was manufacturing a brick wall of shits.
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Why didn’t I learn to treat everything like it was the last time. My greatest regret was how much I believed in the future.
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Ninety-nine percent of all land animals eaten or used to produce milk and eggs in the United States are factory farmed. So although there are important exceptions, to speak about eating animals today is to speak about factory farming.
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He was someone whom everyone admired and liked but whom nobody knew. He was like a book that you could feel good holding, that you could talk about without ever having read, that you could recommend.
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I got incredibly heavy boots about how relatively insignificant life is, and how, compared to the universe and compared to time, it didn’t even matter if I existed at all.
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Memory was supposed to fill the time, but it made time a hole to be filled.
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He promised us that everything would be okay. I was a child, but I knew that everything would not be okay. That did not make my father a liar. It made him my father.
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Of course food has an important cultural use in families, but there are things that have more important cultural uses in families, and broadening the conversation out simply from what’s reasonable also allows in other things.
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I felt suddenly shy. I was not used to shy. I was used to shame. Shyness is when you turn your head away from something you want. Shame is when you turn your head away from something you do not want.
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I’m so afraid of losing something I love that I refuse to love anything.
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You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.
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In the morning, when the nothing vase casts a something shadow, like the memory of someone you’ve lost, what can you say about that?
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The philosopher Elaine Scarry has observed that “beauty always takes place in the particular.” Cruelty, on the other hand, prefers abstraction.
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I have so much to say to you. I want to begin at the beginning, because that is what you deserve. I want to tell you everything, without leaving out a single detail. But where is the beginning? And what is everything?
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When I looked at you, my life made sense. Even the bad things made sense. They were necessary to make you possible.
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We had everything to say to each other, but no ways to say it.
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In my family, Father is the world champion at ending conversations.
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Everything is to protect you. I exist in case you need to be protected.
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We often use technology to save time, but increasingly, it either takes the saved time along with it, or makes the saved time less present, intimate and rich. I worry that the closer the world gets to our fingertips, the further it gets from our hearts.
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One hundred years of joy can be erased in one second.
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It broke my heart into more pieces than my heart was made of, why can’t people say what they mean at the time?
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We are not long-term beings. Not heroes of romances in many volumes. For one gesture, for one word alone, we shall make the effort. We openly admit: our creations will be temporary. We shall have this as our aim: a gesture.
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I missed you even when I was with you. That’s been my problem. I miss what I already have, and I surround myself with things that are missing.
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Writers now are putting total faith in designers at Apple and Amazon. It’s almost like a race-car driver having no input into how cars are designed.
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I’m sorry for my inability to let unimportant things go, for my inability to hold on to the important things.
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He couldn’t bear to live, but he couldn’t bear to die. He couldn’t bear the thought of he making love to someone else, but neither could he bear the absence of the thought. And as for the note, he couldn’t bear to keep it, but he couldn’t bear to destroy it either.
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