I wasn’t trying to invent better and better homes, but to show her that homes didn’t matter, we could live in any home, in any city, in any country, in any century, and be happy, as if the world were just what we lived in.
JONATHAN SAFRAN FOERI do think ordinariness is, in a way, the enemy, but not ordinariness as the opposite of flamboyance.
More Jonathan Safran Foer Quotes
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I tried the key in all the doors, even though he said he didn’t recognize it. It’s not that I didn’t trust him, becuase I did. It’s that at the end of my search I wanted to be able to say: I don’t know how I could have tried harder.
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There are only some many times you can utter “It does not hurt” before it begins to hurt even more than the hurt.
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Everything is to protect you. I exist in case you need to be protected.
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I’d rather somebody hate what I do than be indifferent to it.
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I’m sorry for my inability to let unimportant things go, for my inability to hold on to the important things.
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It’s hard to say goodbye to the place you’ve lived. It can be as hard as saying goodbye to a person.
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My wife and I have chosen to bring up our children as vegetarians. In another time or place, we might have made a different decision. But the realities of our present moment compelled us to make that choice.
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I dreamt four nights ago of clock hands descending from the universe like rain, of the moon as a green eye, of mirrors and insects, of a love that never withdrew. It was not the feeling of completeness that I so needed, but the feeling of not being empty.
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The only thing more painful than being an active forgetter is to be an inert rememberer.
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Worthy would-be worlds of words, whorls of working wonder.
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With writing, we have second chances.
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Please be truthful, but also please be benevolent, please.
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We shared the smile of recognizing ourselves in each other, how many imposters do I have? Do we all make the same mistakes, or has one of us gotten it right, or even just a bit less wrong, am I the imposter?
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Sadness of not knowing enough words to [express what you mean].
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I wasn’t having second thoughts, but I was having thoughts.
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Do you eat chicken because you are familiar with the scientific literature on them and have decided that their suffering doesn’t matter, or do you do it because it tastes good?
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He couldn’t bear to live, but he couldn’t bear to die. He couldn’t bear the thought of he making love to someone else, but neither could he bear the absence of the thought. And as for the note, he couldn’t bear to keep it, but he couldn’t bear to destroy it either.
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A few weeks after the worst day, I started writing lots of letters. I don’t know why, but it was one of the only things that made my boots lighter.
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We had everything to say to each other, but no ways to say it.
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Sometimes I imagined stitching all of our little touches together. How many hundreds of thousands of fingers brushing against each other does it take to make love? Why does anyone ever make love?
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Writers now are putting total faith in designers at Apple and Amazon. It’s almost like a race-car driver having no input into how cars are designed.
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I could not believe in a God that would challenge faith like this.
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There are still many different ways to get stuck, existentially stuck. Feeling like, “This is worthless. I’m wasting my time, and I would be wasting the time of someone who tried to read this.” It happens all the time.
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The more you love someone, he came to think, the harder it is to tell them. It surprised him that strangers didn’t stop each other on the street to say I love you.
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Why didn’t I learn to treat everything like it was the last time. My greatest regret was how much I believed in the future.
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The hardest part of writing is not to get the ideas but to remember, why it is important to get them.
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