Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
JOHN IRVINGYou can’t say you’re going to ban something in the name of good taste, because then you have directed someone to play the role of good-taste police. We – Americans – permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it.
More John Irving Quotes
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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He wished he could arrange a maiming as a kind of moral lesson
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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They were involved in that awkward procedure of getting to unknow each other.
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Plot is a map and I begin with it. It is what made me admire the novels of the 19th century; that the stories are foreshadowed. TheyÕre going someplace.
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No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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