Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
JOHN IRVINGThere are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
More John Irving Quotes
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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Keep passing the open windows.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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Nothing bears out in practice what it promises incipiently.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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Don’t forget this, too: Rumors aren’t interested in the unsensational story; rumors don’t care what’s true.
JOHN IRVING







