No one but me ever put a hand on me to feel that baby. No one wanted to put his ear against it and listen…You shouldn’t have a baby if there’s no one who wants to feel it kick or listen to it move.
JOHN IRVINGJust when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
More John Irving Quotes
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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If you feel strongly about people having abortions, don’t have one. But we are a country – USA – that likes to be punitive. We want to restrict. It is a kind of religious fervor run amuck.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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I don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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