My life is a reading list.
JOHN IRVINGWrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
More John Irving Quotes
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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I’ve always been slow but I’m even slower now. I’m more into the waiting, or I guess I’m more patient about the waiting.
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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He was too young to know that, in any novel with a reasonable amount of forethought, there were no coincidences.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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