Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
JOHN IRVINGWrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
More John Irving Quotes
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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I write very quickly; I rewrite very slowly. It takes me nearly as long to rewrite a book as it does to get the first draft.
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The powerful wind swept his hair away from his face; he leaned his chest into the wind, as if he stood on the deck of a ship heading into the wind, slicing through the waves of an ocean he’d not yet seen.
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You’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
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I’m not afraid, but I’m very nervous.
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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There is no straightforward negotiation with a four year old.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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