… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
JOHN IRVINGIn the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
More John Irving Quotes
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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My life is a reading list.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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All I say is: Let us leave les folles alone; let’s just leave them be. Don’t judge them. You are not superior to them – don’t put them down.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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In this world,” Franny once observed, “just as you’re trying to think of yourself as memorable, there is always someone who forgets that that they have met you.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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