Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
JOHN IRVINGThe main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
More John Irving Quotes
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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The ability to see the future can be a burden, and the younger you are and the more isolated you feel, maybe the more of a burden it is.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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Keep passing the open windows.
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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