Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
JOHN IRVINGNo adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
More John Irving Quotes
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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It doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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I am compulsive about writing, I need to do it the way I need sleep and exercise and food and sex; I can go without it for a while, but then I need it.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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A sentence boiled in her, but she could not yet see it clearly.
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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