Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
JOHN IRVINGIt is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
More John Irving Quotes
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…there was no more safety to be found in love than there was to be found in a virus.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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Nearly everything seems a letdown after a writer has finished writing something.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
JOHN IRVING