It’s not right to hurt or deceive someone who’s already been hurt and deceived.
JOHN IRVINGLife is an X-rated soap opera.
More John Irving Quotes
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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But I often think that so-called glamorous people are just very busy people.
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I don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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Kids are beautiful, man. And they know much more than grownups think they know. Kids are just perfect people until grownups get their hands on them.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
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The unspoken factor is love. The reason I can work so hard at my writing is that it’s not work for me.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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I have pretty thick skin, and I think if you’re going to be in this business, if you’re going to be an actor or a writer, you better have a thick skin.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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