They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
JOHN IRVINGLife is an X-rated soap opera.
More John Irving Quotes
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And when you love a book, commit one glorious sentence of it-perhaps your favorite sentence-to memory. That way you won’t forget the language of the story that moved you to tears.
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Watch out for people who call themselves religious; make sure you know what they mean – make sure they know what they mean!
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Keep passing the open windows.
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We permit bad taste in this country. In fact, we even encourage it – and reward it in all manner of ways.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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…I suddenly realized what small towns are. They are places where you grow up with the peculiar-you live next door to the strange and the unlikely for so long that everything and everyone become commonplace.
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No adult in my family would ever tell me anything about who my father was. I knew from an older cousin – only four years older than I am – everything, or what little I could discover about him.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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The lie, of course, is more interesting.
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If pride is a sin … moral pride is the greatest sin.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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