but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
JOHN IRVINGOur memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
More John Irving Quotes
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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It doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
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It’s a no-win argument – that business of what we’re born with and what our environment does to us. And it’s a boring argument, because it simplifies the mysteries that attend both our birth and our growth.
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A writer’s job is to imagine everything so personally that the fiction is as vivid as memories.
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The former stewardess glared at her ex-pilot husband as if he had been speaking, and thinking, in the absence of sufficient oxygen.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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He had in abundance youth’s most dangerous qualities: optimism and relentlessness. He would risk everything he had to fly the plane that could carry the bomb within him.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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I’m not a movie person. They’re collaborations of the worst kind. You must compromise yourself to many interests that are venal and crass and do not have your best interests at heart.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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The gardener had a dread of small women; he’d always imagined them to have an anger disproportionate to their size.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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