People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
JOHN IRVINGIf we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
More John Irving Quotes
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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O God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
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I always thought that you could do worse than find yourself dying in the company of a devoted former student.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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When writing a novel, I’m not smart enough to know how to foreshadow something if I don’t know what it is.
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It happens to many teenagers-that moment when you feel full of resentment or distrust for those adults you once loved unquestioningly.
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In the world according to her father, Jenny Garp knew, we must have energy. Her famous grandmother, Jenny Fields, once thought of us as Externals, Vital Organs, Absentees, and Goners. But in the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases.
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When you legislate personal belief, you’re in violation of freedom of religion.
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