You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
JOHN IRVINGLife forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
More John Irving Quotes
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It is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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… and so he tried to accept the ache in his heart as what Dr. Larch would call the common symptoms of normal life.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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Everybody dies … The thing is, to have a life before we die.
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There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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The main character and the most important character are not always the same person – you have to know the difference.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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Whereas she wished more of the population were better educated, she also believed that education was largely wasted on the majority of the people she met.
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