You’ve got to get obsessed and stay obsessed.
JOHN IRVINGI have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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You know, everybody dies. My parents died. Your father died. Everybody dies. I’m going to die too. So will you. The thing is, to have a life before we die. It can be a real adventure having a life
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Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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I don’t begin a novel until I have written, not just the last sentence, but usually, as a result thereof, many of the surrounding final paragraphs, so that in addition to knowing what happens, I know what the voice is.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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So, I don’t work in terms of real time. I don’t work in a timely fashion.
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…every study of the gods, of everyone’s gods, is a revelation of vengeance towards the innocent.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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