Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
JOHN IRVINGI have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
More John Irving Quotes
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Life is serious but art is fun!
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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You only grow by coming to the end of something and by beginning something else.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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He also knew that rivals are best unmanned by being ignored.
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When Jack Burns needed to hold his mother’s hand, his fingers could see in the dark.
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It’s a no-win argument – that business of what we’re born with and what our environment does to us. And it’s a boring argument, because it simplifies the mysteries that attend both our birth and our growth.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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It doesn’t really matter who said it – it’s so obviously true. Before you can write anything, you have to notice something.
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What a phrase that is: ‘that explains everything!’ I know better than to think anything ‘explains everything’ today.
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If you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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There’s nothing as scary as the future.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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