Death, it seems,” Garp wrote, “does not like to wait until we are prepared for it. Death is indulgent and enjoys, when it can, a flair for the dramatic.
JOHN IRVINGIt is hard work and great art to make life not so serious.
More John Irving Quotes
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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Rituals are comforting; rituals combat loneliness.
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I am compulsive about writing, I need to do it the way I need sleep and exercise and food and sex; I can go without it for a while, but then I need it.
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You cannot drive with your eyes in the rear-view mirror… But dignity is difficult to maintain. Stamina requires constant upkeep. Repetition is boring. And you pay for grace.
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Your memory is a monster; you forget – it doesn’t. It simply files things away. It keeps things for you, or hides things from you – and summons them to your recall with a will of its own. You think you have a memory; but it has you!
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I’ve always preferred writing in longhand. I’ve always written first drafts in longhand.
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This is what self-centered religion does to us: it allows us to use it to further our own ends.
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Thus we try to keep our heroes alive; hence we remember them.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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Maybe television causes cancer, Garp thinks; but his real irritation is a writer’s irritation: he knows that wherever the TV glows, there sits someone who isn’t reading.
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I grew up in a family where, through my teenage years, I was expected to go to church on Sunday. It wasn’t terribly painful.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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Writing a novel is actually searching for victims. As I write I keep looking for casualties. The stories uncover the casualties.
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