I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
JOHN IRVINGIf you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
More John Irving Quotes
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They all settled into being the kind of friends when they heard from each other…. or when they occasionally got together. And when they were not in touch, they did not think of one another.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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People only ask questions when they’re ready to hear the answers.
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If we live long enough, we become caricatures of ourselves.
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Wrestling was my first success, the first thing that confirmed that I could be good at anything. Devoting yourself to wrestling, or tennis, or skiing, or dance, or to a musical instrument is a longing to be disciplined for a purpose.
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In increments both measurable and not, our childhood is stolen from us — not always in one momentous event but often in a series of small robberies, which add up to the same loss.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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but good friends are nothing to each other if they are not supportive.
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Don’t you understand?” he would say, “You imagine the story better than I remember it.
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I think now that is the nature of hymns-they make us want to repeat them…they are a part of any service, and often the only part of a funeral service, that makes us feel everything is acceptable.
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He was too young to know that, in any novel with a reasonable amount of forethought, there were no coincidences.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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My brain is sending poison to my heart.
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The way you define yourself as a writer is that you write every time you have a free minute. If you didn’t behave that way you would never do anything.
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