What is hardest to accept about the passage of time is that the people who once mattered the most to us wind up in parentheses.
JOHN IRVINGIf you presume to love something, you must love the process of it much more than you love the finished product.
More John Irving Quotes
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Our memory is a monster; you forget it – it does not.
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As it was, things went from bad to worse, as they often will when amateurs are involved in an activity that they perform in bad temper – or in a hurry.
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People are either attracted to the unseemly or disapproving of it, or both; yet we try to sound superior to the unseemly by pretending to be amused by it or indifferent to it.
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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How we love to love things for other people; how we love to have other people love things through our eyes.
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A part of adolescence is feelimg that there’s no one else around who’s enough like youself to understand you.
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A novel is a piece of architecture. It’s not random wallowings or confessional diaries. It’s a building-it has to have walls and floors and the bathrooms have to work.
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I never know when I finish the novel I am writing which will be the next novel out of the station.
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I still believe in getting married in churches and baptizing children. I go through those motions.
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You don’t want to be ungenerous toward people who give you prizes, but it is never the social or political message that interests me in a novel. I begin with an interest in a relationship, a situation, a character.
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Being reviewed is being condescended to by your inferiors.
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There’s no reason you shouldn’t, as a writer, not be aware of the necessity to revise yourself constantly.
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Self-hatred is worse than loneliness.
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Children are most impressed with the importance of a moment when they witness a parent breaking the parents’ own rule.
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The powerful wind swept his hair away from his face; he leaned his chest into the wind, as if he stood on the deck of a ship heading into the wind, slicing through the waves of an ocean he’d not yet seen.
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