There are always suicides among people who are unable to say what they mean.
JOHN IRVINGO God — please give him back! I shall keep asking You.
More John Irving Quotes
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It is exhausting to be seventeen and not know who you are.
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Life forces enough final decisions on us. We should have the sense to avoid as many of the unnecessary ones as we can.
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Be serious. Life hurts. Reflect what hurts. I don’t mean that you can’t also be funny, or have fun, but at the end of the day, stories are about what you lose.
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The excitement of anticipation was *almost* equal to the thrill of lovemaking.
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It is your responsibility to find fault with me, it is mine to hear you out. But don’t expect me to change.
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Just when you begin thinking of yourself as memorable, you run into someone who can’t even remember having met you
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You’re nice,’ Cushie told him, squeezing his hand. ‘And you’re my oldest friend.’ But they both must have known that you can know someone all your life and never quite be friends.
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The building of the architecture of a novel – the craft of it – is something I never tire of.
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but writers, Garp knew, were just observers – good and ruthless imitators of human behavior.
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I have a friend who says that reviewers are the tickbirds of the literary rhinoceros-but he is being kind. Tickbirds perform a valuable service to the rhino and the rhino hardly notices the birds.
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When I finally write the first sentence, I want to know everything that happens, so that I am not inventing the story as I write it – rather, I am remembering a story that has already happened.
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In the world according to Garp, we are all terminal cases
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I have always believed that, in a story, if something traumatic or calamitous enough happens to a kid at a formative age, that will make him or her the adult they become.
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I will tell you what is my overriding perception of the last twenty years: that we are a civilization careening toward a succession of anticlimaxes – toward an infinity of unsatisfying, and disagreeable endings.
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Life,” Garp wrote, “is sadly not structured like a good old-fashioned novel. Instead an end occurs when those who are meant to peter out have petered out. All that is left is memory. But even a nihilist has memory.
JOHN IRVING