I wasn’t mean; I wasn’t evil. I was nice. And let me tell you, a hesitant man is the last thing in the world a woman needs. She needs a lover and a warrior, not a Really Nice Guy.
JOHN ELDREDGETo be in theater you have to be a kind of psychologist, for you’re always trying to understand character and motives.
More John Eldredge Quotes
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It was men who stopped slavery. It was men who ran up the stairs in the Twin Towers to rescue people. It was men who gave up their seats on the lifeboats of the Titanic. Men are made to take risks and live passionately on behalf of others.
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You can’t fight a battle you don’t think exists.
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There is something about human nature that just doesn’t want to face the reality that we live in two worlds. We live in the physical, material world where we have jobs, read books, and go about our business. And we live in a spiritual world – and that is a world at war.
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When a woman forsakes her vulnerability because she’s been hurt or because she lives in a dangerous world or doesn’t want to be used, she loses something essential about being a woman.
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I’m married. I have three children. I have a mortgage to pay. The plumbing breaks and the yard needs trimming. However, what my wife and children need most from me is my passion for them.
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If we can reawaken that fierce quality in a man, hook it up to a higher purpose, release the warrior within, then the boy can grow up and become truly masculine.
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The meaning of our lives is revealed through experiences that at first seem at odds with each other–moments we wish would never end and moments we wish had never begun.
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Eternal life is not primarily duration but quality of life, “life to the limit.
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Reading the Gospels, without the personality of Jesus, is like watching television with the sound turned off.
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Falling in love with God is the most important thing a person can do.
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Caring for your heart is also how you protect your relationship with God. The heart is where we commune with him. It is where we hear his voice. Most of the folks I know who have never heard God speak to them are the same folks who live far from their hearts.
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Without the anticipation of better things ahead, we will have no heart for the journey.
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A true knowledge of Jesus is our greatest need and our greatest happiness.
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You live in a world at war. Spiritual attack must be a category you think in or you will misunderstand more than half of what happens in your marriage.
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A man must have a battle to fight, a great mission to his life that involves and yet transcends even home and family.
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But a wound unfelt is a wound unhealed.
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What strikes me about Jesus is that he is a remarkably true person; he never changes his personality to fit in with whatever crowd he finds himself. He is simply himself, and he never plays to his audience.
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The real you is on the side of God against the false self.
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We are not inviting—we are guarded. Most of our energy is spent trying to hide our true selves, and control our worlds to have some sense of security.
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Most of what you encounter when you meet a man is a facade, an elaborate fig leaf, a brilliant disguise.
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For after years of living in a cage, a lion no longer even believes it is a lion, and a man no longer believes he is a man.
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Am I really a man? Have I got what it takeswhen it counts?
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Instead of asking, ‘What should a woman do – what is her role?’ it would be far more helpful to ask, ‘What is a woman—what is her design?’ and, ‘Why did God place Woman in our midst?
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Adventure, with all its requisite danger and wildness, is a deeply spiritual longing written into the soul of man.
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The true story of every person in this world is not the story you see, the external story. The true story of each person is the journey of his or her heart.
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A man’s calling is written on his true heart, and he discovers it when he enters the frontier of his deep desires.
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