John Eldredge on hesitant
John Eldredge67 quotes“I wasn’t mean; I wasn’t evil. I was nice. And let me tell you, a hesitant man is the last thing in the world a woman needs. She needs a lover and a warrior, not a Really Nice Guy.”
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She is the crescendo, the final, astonishing work of God. Woman. In one last flourish creation comes to a finish with Eve. She is the Master’s finishing touch.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge The true story of every person in this world is not the story you see, the external story. The true story of each person is the journey of his or her heart.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge We think you’ll find that every woman in her heart of hearts longs for three things: to be romanced, to play an irreplaceable role in a great adventure, and to unveil beauty. That’s what makes a woman come alive.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge Am I really a man? Have I got what it takeswhen it counts?
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge There is something else I am after, out here in the wild. I am searching for an even more elusive prey, something that can only be found through the help of wilderness. I am looking for my heart.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge You would not ask someone with a broken arm to swim the English Channel, so you cannot demand that the broken to live as if they were whole.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge Eve is a life giver; she is Adam’s ally. It is to both of them that the charter for adventure is given. It will take both of them to sustain life. And they will both need to fight together.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge Deep in his heart, every man longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge For after years of living in a cage, a lion no longer even believes it is a lion, and a man no longer believes he is a man.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge We are created for adventure, and if we cannot find one, we start blowing things out of proportion so it feels like we have one.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge You can’t fight a battle you don’t think exists.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge It is the thoughts and intents of the heart that shape a person’s life.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge Henri Nouwen once asked Mother Teresa for spiritual direction. Spend one hour each day in adoration of your Lord, she said, and never do anything you know is wrong. Follow this and you’ll be fine.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge Desire reveals design, and design reveals destiny.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge They ignore what is deep and true to a man’s heart, his real passions, and simply try to shape him up through various forms of pressure.
John EldredgeJohn Eldredge
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Astha SrivastavaAstha Srivastava Choosing yourself should not be an option, It should be a decision.
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TMCTMC Your arms around me – and for the first time in years, I feel like I am home.
M.K. StandbyM.K. Standby I breathe in the first glimmers of freedom – it tastes of sweet hopefulness.
Alma-May NoaAlma-May Noa Don’t let this dissipate. Don’t let this evaporate into thin air. Don’t let this go.
Olivia CliffordOlivia Clifford No matter how much you take care of everything in your life, if you ignore self-care, everything is wasted.
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