We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetition impresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.
Sex and intimacy are not the same: You can have sex all your life and never be intimate with a person. There has to be empathy in the relationship. You have to enjoy seeing through their eyes. When you’re with them, you’re there and not thinking about what you’re gonna do tomorrow.
