Death loses its terror if one dies when one has consummated one’s life!
IRVIN D. YALOMOne doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
More Irvin D. Yalom Quotes
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The spirit of a man is constructed out of his choices.
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The act of revealing oneself fully to another and still being accepted may be the major vehicle of therapeutic help.
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A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
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I feel strongly, because a man who will himself die one day in the not to distant future and, also, as a psychiatrist who spent decades dealing with death anxiety, that confronting death allows us, not to open some noisome.
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The path to decision may be hard because it leads into the territory of both finiteness and groundlessness—domains soaked in anxiety.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Psychotherapy is a cyclical process from isolation into relationship. It is cyclical because the patient, in terror of existential isolation, relates deeply and meaningfully to the therapist and then, strengthened by this encounter, is led back again to a confrontation with existential isolation.
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… sooner or later she had to give up the hope for a better past.
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Live your life to the fullest; and then, and only then, die. Don’t leave any unlived life behind.
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I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people.
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One comprehends oneself in order not to be preoccupied with oneself.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
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A focus on this deep dissatisfaction is often the starting point in overcoming death anxiety.
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I think we ripple on into others, just like a stone puts its ripples into a brook. That, for me, too, is a source of comfort. It kind of, in a sense, negates the sense of total oblivion.
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