Self-awareness is a supreme gift, a treasure as precious as life.
IRVIN D. YALOMOne doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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In a study we did of bereavement, we found that rather impressive numbers of widows and widowers had not simply gone back to their pre-loss functioning, but grown.
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To love means to be actively concerned for the life and the growth of another.
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Life is a spark between two identical voids, the darkness before birth and the one after death.
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Look out the other’s window. Try to see the world as your patient sees it.
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Heidegger makes the distinction between being absorbed in the way things are in the world and being aware that things are in the world.
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Some sort of greater awareness of their own finiteness and what their time on earth really is, and what they really want to do with their lives, could help improve them.
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Death, however, does itch. It itches all the time. It is always with us, scratching at some inner door.
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Mirroring, softly, barely audibly, just under the membrane of consciousness.
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Pandora’s box, but to re-enter life in a richer, more compassionate manner.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Live right, he reminded himself, and have faith that good things will flow from you even if you never learn of them.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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The more unlived your life, the greater your death anxiety.
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We take pleasure not only in the growth of our patient but also in the ripple effect—the salutary influence our patients have upon those whom they touch in life.
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Every person must choose how much truth he can stand.
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