A curious thought experiment. . . Nietzsche’s message to us was to live life in such a way that we would be willing to repeat the same life eternally
IRVIN D. YALOMOne doesn’t do existential therapy as a freestanding separate theory; rather it informs your approach to such issues as death, which many therapists tend to shy away from.
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If I had to pick out a therapist in a movie that I’d like to go see as a personal therapist, it would be Robin Williams in Goodwill Hunting.
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Love is not just a passion spark between two people; there is infinite difference between falling in love and standing in love.
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Mature love is loving, not being loved.
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And if you do the latter, you’re not so worried about the everyday trivialities of life, for example, petty concerns about secrecy or privacy.
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The drive for power is not uncommonly motivated by this dynamic. One’s own fear and sense of limitation is avoided by enlarging oneself and one’s sphere of control.
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Perhaps the single most important therapeutic credo that I have is that the unexamined life is not worth living.
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If we climb high enough, we will reach a height from which tragedy ceases to look tragic.
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When people don’t have any curiosity about themselves, that is always a bad sign.
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Marriage and its entourage of possession and jealousy enslave the spirit.
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Not to take possession of your life plan is to let your existence be an accident.
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Death cures psychoneurosis. In a sense all these neurotic concerns–fear of rejection, interpersonal concerns–seem to melt away, and people get another perspective on their lives. The important things are really important, and the trivia of life is trivialized.
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Though the physicality of death destroys us, the idea of death may save us.
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If one is to love oneself one must behave in ways that one can admire.
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I think my quarry is illusion. I war against magic. I believe that, though illusion often cheers and comforts, it ultimately and invariably weakens and constricts the spirit.
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He had learned long ago that, in general, the easier it was for anxious patients to reach him, the less likely they were to call. (107)
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