Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real.
IRIS MURDOCHI’ve been so unhappy for years, so unhappy, I don’t understand how a human being can be so unhappy all the time and still be alive.
More Iris Murdoch Quotes
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A bad review is even less important than whether it is raining in Patagonia.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continous small treats.
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Writing is like getting married. One should never commit oneself until one is amazed at one’s luck.
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I don’t think I can marry, I’m not fit for it, I’m not real enough. That’s the trouble. I’m a puppet that’s realised what’s wrong with itself and it’s horrible. I’m propped up somewhere all alone, watching the real people go past. I’m propped up crying in a corner.
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Of course this chattering diary is a facade, the literary equivalent of the everyday smiling face which hides the inward ravages of jealousy, remorse, fear and the consciousness of irretrievable moral failure. Yet such pretenses are not only consolations but may even be productive of a little ersatz courage.
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This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart.
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Perhaps there was an intimacy which did not need words.
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One of the secrets of a happy life is continuous small treats, and if some of these can be inexpensive and quickly procured so much the better.
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Every book is the wreck of a perfect idea.
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People from a planet without flowers would think we must be mad with joy the whole time to have such things about us.
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Hegel says that Truth is a great word and the thing is greater still. With Dave we never seemed to get past the word.
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Violence is born of the desire to escape oneself.
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Art and psychoanalisis give shape and meaning to life and that’s why we adore them. However, life as it is lived has no shape nor meaning, and that’s what I am experiencing right now.
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I took a deep breath, however, and followed my rule of never speaking frankly to women in moments of emotion. No good ever comes of this.
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I feel half faded away like some figure in the background of an old picture.
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