We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing. Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
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Dating should be a part of your life, not your life a part of dating. There is more to life than finding a date.
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We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
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The physicality of a real relationship – one that encompasses mind, body and soul – ultimately makes it more fulfilling and powerful than any virtual relationship ever could be.
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You aren’t alive if you aren’t in need.
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In a very real way, ownership is the essence of leadership. When you are ridiculously in charge, then you own whatever happens in a company, school.
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The amount of truth a relationship can handle is proportional to the amount of perceived love that’s present.
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Dating is a give and take. If you only see it as “Taking,” you are not getting it.
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Anger is frustration at the fact that we are not God, and do not have control over reality.
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You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
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True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
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Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
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There is a difference between solitude and isolation. One is connected and one isn’t. Solitude replenishes, isolation diminishes.
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Values are sometimes worth living and dying for, and are certainly worth dating and breaking up over.
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Endings are a part of life, and we are actually wired to execute them. But because of trauma, developmental failures, and other reasons, we shy away from the steps that could open up whole new worlds of development and growth.
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A culture is like an immune system. It operates through the laws of systems, just like a body. If a body has an infection, the immune system deals with it. Similarly, a group enforces its norms, either actively or passively.
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