Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
HENRI NOUWENThe great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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Your life is not going to be easy, and it should not be easy. It ought to be hard. It ought to be radical; it ought to be restless; it ought to lead you to places you’d rather not go.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
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Every time I take a step in the direction of generosity, I know I am moving from fear to love.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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If I were to let my life be taken over by what is urgent, I might very well never get around to what is essential.
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Those who keep speaking about the sun while walking under a cloudy sky are messengers of hope, the true saints of our day.
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You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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Trust that the treasure we look for is hidden in the ground on which we stand.
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The church is not an institution forcing us to follow rules but a community inviting us to still our hunger and thirst at its table.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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We cannot make it rain but we can see to it that the rain falls on prepared soil.
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