You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
HENRI NOUWENThe main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved.
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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Listening is a form of spiritual hospitality by which you invite strangers to become friends, to get to know their inner selves more fully, and even to dare to be silent with you.
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Our humanity comes to its fullest bloom in giving. We become beautiful people when we give whatever we can give: a smile, a handshake, a kiss, an embrace, a word of love, a present, a part of our life…all of our life.
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Learning to weep, learning to keep vigil, learning to wait for the dawn. Perhaps this is what it means to be human.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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Life is just a little opportunity for you during a few years to say, “I love you, too.”
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Dare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.
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We need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation. Because only when we fully realize that the cup of life is not only a cup of sorrow but also a cup of joy will we be able to drink it.
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Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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We are all healers who can reach out and offer health, and we are all patients in constant need of help.
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