Compassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
HENRI NOUWENThis brief lifetime is my opportunity to receive love, deepen love, grow in love, and give love.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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God, help me to see others not as enemies or as ungodly but rather as thirsty people. And give me the courage and compassion to offer your Living Water, which alone quenches deep thirst.
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One of the tragedies of our life is that we keep forgetting who we are.
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Solitude is the furnace of transformation. Without solitude we remain victims of our society and continue to be entangled in the illusions of the false self.
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Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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You have to listen to the one who calls you beloved. That has to be affirmed over and over again. That is prayer – listening to the voice of the one who calls you “the beloved.”
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Joy is the experience of knowing that you are unconditionally loved.
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We are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
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Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place.
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I feel strongly that the God we meet in solitude is always the God who calls us to community.
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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Learning to weep, learning to keep vigil, learning to wait for the dawn. Perhaps this is what it means to be human.
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Those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. LOVE is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.
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Your life is not going to be easy, and it should not be easy. It ought to be hard. It ought to be radical; it ought to be restless; it ought to lead you to places you’d rather not go.
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Those who keep speaking about the sun while walking under a cloudy sky are messengers of hope, the true saints of our day.
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