Much violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
HENRI NOUWENMuch violence is based on the illusion that life is a property to be defended and not to be shared.
HENRI NOUWENThe great illusion of leadership is to think that man can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.
HENRI NOUWENMy whole life I have been complaining that my work was constantly interrupted, until I discovered that my interruptions were my work.
HENRI NOUWENOur life is a time in which sadness and joy kiss each other at every moment.
HENRI NOUWENThe only feelings that do not heal are the ones you hide.
HENRI NOUWENDear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
HENRI NOUWENThe church is not an institution forcing us to follow rules but a community inviting us to still our hunger and thirst at its table.
HENRI NOUWENOur greatest fulfillment lies in giving ourselves to others.
HENRI NOUWENForgiveness changes the way we remember.
HENRI NOUWENI feel strongly that the God we meet in solitude is always the God who calls us to community.
HENRI NOUWENBe surprised by joy, be surprised by the little flower that shows its beauty in the midst of a barren desert, and be surprised by the immense healing power that keeps bursting forth like springs of fresh water from the depth of our pain.
HENRI NOUWENCompassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
HENRI NOUWENJoy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
HENRI NOUWENThe main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
HENRI NOUWENOne of the tragedies of our life is that we keep forgetting who we are.
HENRI NOUWENIn a world so torn apart by rivalry, anger, and hatred, we have the privileged vocation to be living signs of a love that can bridge all divisions and heal all wounds.
HENRI NOUWEN