The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing that is a friend who cares.
HENRI NOUWENWhat makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
More Henri Nouwen Quotes
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Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the Beloved.
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My whole life I have been complaining that my work was constantly interrupted, until I discovered that my interruptions were my work.
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What makes us human is not our mind but our heart, not our ability to think but our ability to love.
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We are called to be fruitful – not successful, not productive, not accomplished. Success comes from strength, stress, and human effort. Fruitfulness comes from vulnerability and the admission of our own weakness.
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Prayer is first of all listening to God. It’s openness. God is always speaking; he’s always doing something.
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Waiting time is not wasting time. Waiting patiently in expectation is the foundation of the spiritual life.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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Every time I take a step in the direction of generosity, I know I am moving from fear to love.
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Life is just a little opportunity for you during a few years to say, “I love you, too.”
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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I am the prodigal son every time I search for unconditional love where it cannot be found.
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God, help me to see others not as enemies or as ungodly but rather as thirsty people. And give me the courage and compassion to offer your Living Water, which alone quenches deep thirst.
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The spiritual life is a life beyond moods. It is a life in which we choose joy and do not allow ourselves to become victims of passing feelings of happiness or depression.
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