Prayer is not what is done by us, but rather what is done by the Holy Spirit in us.
HENRI NOUWENCompassion can never coexist with judgement because judgement creates the distance, the distinction, which prevents us from really being with the other.
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When we are crushed like grapes, we cannot think of the wine we will become.
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Somewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.
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Let’s not be afraid to look at everything that has brought us to where we are now and trust that we will soon see in it the guiding hand of a loving God.
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Those we most love cause us not only great joy but also great pain. LOVE is stronger than fear, life stronger than death, hope stronger than despair. We have to trust that the risk of loving is always worth taking.
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If you feel loved, you can do a thousand things. If you feel rejected, everything becomes a problem.
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You don’t think your way into a new kind of living. You live your way into a new kind of thinking.
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Every time there are losses, there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper.
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Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.
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Dear God, I am so afraid to open my clenched fists! Who will I be when I have nothing left to hold on to? Who will I be when I stand before you with empty hands? Please help me to gradually open my hands and to discover that I am not what I own, but what you want to give me.
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Pay attention to the people God puts in your path if you want to discern what God is up to in your life.
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Be surprised by joy, be surprised by the little flower that shows its beauty in the midst of a barren desert, and be surprised by the immense healing power that keeps bursting forth like springs of fresh water from the depth of our pain.
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The spiritual life is a life beyond moods. It is a life in which we choose joy and do not allow ourselves to become victims of passing feelings of happiness or depression.
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The main question is not, how can we hide our wounds but how can we put our woundedness in service to others.
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Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life. We do not take the spiritual life seriously if we do not set aside some time to be with God and listen to him.
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Community is first of all a quality of the heart. It grows from the spiritual knowledge that we are alive not for ourselves but for one another.
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