Because I loved myself, I was loved.
ERICA JONGFreedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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The greatest feminists have also been the greatest lovers. I’m thinking not only of Mary Wollstonecraft and her daughter Mary Shelley, but of Anais Nin, Edna St. Vincent Millay, and of course Sappho.
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My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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People are interested in their own sexuality and they’ve always reflected it in their art. End of story.
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I don’t think that sex necessarily produces intimacy.
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Gossip is the opiate of the oppressed.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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The only difference between men and women is that women are able to create new little human beings in their bodies while simultaneously writing books, driving tractors, working in offices, planting crops – in general, doing everything men do.
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I vowed to give up sex, bacon, and air travel if I ever made it back to terra firma in one piece.
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I see that the greatest thing about getting older is how your judgment changes and how you come to understand the cycles of life. And you keep having these amazing flashes of understanding.
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To name oneself is the first act of both the poet and the revolutionary.
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What I would like to give my daughter is freedom. And this is something that must be given by example, not exhortation.
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Shakespeare wrote without knowing he would become Shakespeare
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Women are the only exploited group in history to have been idealized into powerlessness.
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It’s easier to write about pain than about joy. Joy is wordless.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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