Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
ERICA JONGI myself hate that old Hemingwayesque paradigm of the writer as prizefighter and I have tried hard to create an alternate one for myself.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Why does life need evidence of life?
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The future is merely a shadow which blocks out the joys of the present and emphasizes the miseries of the past.
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I do believe that in every age there are people whose consciousness transcends their own time and that these people, whether fictional or historical, are those with whom we most closely identify and those about whom we most enjoy reading.
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Before things are written down they don’t exist in quite the same way. The act of fixing them in words gives them a kind of currency that can be traded.
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My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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Driving me away is easier than saying goodbye.
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Every country gets the circus it deserves. Spain gets bullfights. Italy the Church. America Hollywood.
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In a world where women work three times as hard for half as much, our achievement has been denigrated, both marriage and divorce have turned against us, our motherhood has been used as an obstacle to our success, our passion as a trap.
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Gossip is the opiate of the oppressed.
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Flesh is merely a lesson. We learn it & pass on.
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People always think that history proceeds in a straight line. It doesn’t. Social attitudes don’t change in a straight line.
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I want you. I want you. I want you. Anything to avoid saying: I love you.
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I don’t think you will ever fully understand how you’ve touched my life and made me who I am.
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The dilemma is that if one does not risk anything one risks even more.
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