Narrative- and image-making creatures like humans don’t feel any experience is complete unless it’s recorded.
ERICA JONGConflict is the soul of literature.
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Love is love, but marriage is an investment.
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Do all women have to keep silent for men to speak? Do all women have to be legless for men to walk?
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Before things are written down they don’t exist in quite the same way. The act of fixing them in words gives them a kind of currency that can be traded.
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Breast-feeding may succumb to the bottle; cuddling, fondling, and paediatric visits may also be done by fathers…but when a child needs a mother to talk to, nobody else but a mother will do.
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Divorce is my generation’s coming of age ceremony – a ritual scarring that makes anything that happens afterward seem bearable.
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I hope we don’t have to keep going back over the same territory and winning the same rights over and over again. The battle for birth control. The battle for abortion.
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As women got little crumbs of power, men began to act paranoid – as if we’d disabled them utterly.
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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Why does life need evidence of life?
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Friends love misery… our misery is what endears us to our friends.
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I have accepted fear as a part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.
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Jealousy is all the fun you think they had.
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People are interested in their own sexuality and they’ve always reflected it in their art. End of story.
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It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
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There is a rhythm to the ending of a marriage just like the rhythm of a courtship, only backward.
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