And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.
ERICA JONGMy advice to you is get married: if you find a good wife you’ll be happy; if not, you’ll become a philosopher.” – Socrates (470-399 B.C.) “Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t
More Erica Jong Quotes
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Art is always an energy exchange.
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Often I find that poems predict what I’m going to do later in my own writing, and often I find that poems predict my life. So I think poetry is the most intense expression of feeling that we have.
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How wonderful to have someone to blame! How wonderful to live with one’s nemesis! You may be miserable, but you feel forever in the right.
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Young people never believe in the possibility of their own deaths. That’s one reason old men can send them to war.
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The truth is simple, you do not die from love. You only wish you did.
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Creativity demands nothing less than all you have. Talent alone is never enough.
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My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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Keeping a journal implies hope.
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I don’t think that sex necessarily produces intimacy.
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It is the city of mirrors, the city of mirages, at once solid and liquid, at once air and stone.
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I have accepted fear as a part of life – specifically the fear of change… I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.
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Narrative- and image-making creatures like humans don’t feel any experience is complete unless it’s recorded.
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And what if I don’t want forgiveness?
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I see that the greatest thing about getting older is how your judgment changes and how you come to understand the cycles of life. And you keep having these amazing flashes of understanding.
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They keep saying the right person will come along. I think mine got hit by a truck.
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Loving someone is a loss of freedom – but one doesn’t think of it as loss because one gains so much else.
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Someday every woman will have orgasms- like every family has color TV- and we can all get on with the business of life.
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A book burrows into your life in a very profound way because the experience of reading is not passive.
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Freedom is a loose leash, license to be different from your mother and still be loved…Freedom is…not insisting that your daughter share your limitations. Freedom also means letting your daughter reject you when she needs to and come back when she needs to. Freedom is unconditional love.
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Women are their own worst enemies. And guilt is the main weapon of self-torture . . . Show me a woman who doesn’t feel guilty and I’ll show you a man.
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The sexuality doesn’t end. It really doesn’t. You’re sexual your whole life, if you’re a sexual person.
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If you imagine the world listening, you’ll never write a line. That’s why privacy is so important. You should write first drafts as if they will never be shown to anyone.
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Humor is one of the most serious tools we have for dealing with impossible situations.
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Compose with utter freedom and edit with utter discipline.
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We are so scared of being judged that we look for every excuse to procrastinate.
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Motherhood cannot finally be delegated.
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