In order not to cut out a large part of one’s private life, the creative work should not swallow up every other form of self-expression. But that is the most complicated thing.
ELENA FERRANTEWe lie in order to tolerate our existence and, most of all, we lie to ourselves.
More Elena Ferrante Quotes
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Writers, because they write, are condemned never to be readers of their own stories…The memory of first putting a story into words will always prevent writers from reading their work as an ordinary reader would.
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Even as I felt myself solidly contained by the expectant looks of my children. It was the fault of the torture that my husband had inflicted. But enough, I had to tear the pain from memory, I had to sandpaper away the scratches that were damaging my brain.
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Anonymity lets me concentrate exclusively on writing.
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Is it possible that even happy moments of pleasure never stand up to a rigorous examination? Possible.
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I had to discover very quickly that class origins cannot be erased, regardless of whether we climb up or down the sociocultural ladder.
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The rules say that to tell a story you need first of all a measuring stick.
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A calendar, you have to calculate how much time has passed between you and the facts, the emotions to be narrated.
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We lie in order to tolerate our existence and, most of all, we lie to ourselves.
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The circle of an empty day is brutal and at night it tightens around your neck like a noose
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At most, I may write when I am disturbed by something. I have recently discovered the pleasure of finding written answers to written questions.
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Those who write need that “willing suspension of disbelief “, as Coleridge called it.
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Certainly something had happened to me during the night. Or after months of tension I had arrived at the edge of some precipice and now I was falling, as in a dream slowly, even as I continued to hold the thermometer in my hand, een as I stood with the soles of my slippers on the floor.
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Competition between women is good only if it does not prevail; that is to say if it coexists with affinity, affection, with a real sense of being mutually indispensable, with sudden peaks of solidarity in spite of envy, jealousy and the whole inevitable cohort of bad feelings.
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Women, in all fields – whether mothers or not – still encounter an extraordinary number of obstacles. They have to hold too many things together and often sacrifice their aspirations in the name of affections.
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I no longer protect myself from the world I grew up in. Rather, today I try to protect the feelings I have for that world, the emotional space where my desire to write first took hold, and still grows.
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