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When you are in love with a man or a woman, the love you feel does not come from him or her; it is the love flowing from you own heart that you feel. Your partner is simply giving you an excuse to love. Love is always found flowing in your heart, not in your family, lover, career or art.

David Deida

When fear dissolves, you no longer separate yourself from this single flow of immense force. Love is continuity with infinite life force, a Oneness of being with no separation. Love is the key to opening to this flow of life force.
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Fear Flow Force Life Love Oneself Separate
The way a man penetrates the world should be the same way he penetrates his woman: not merely for personal gain or pleasure, but to magnify love, openness, and depth.
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Deep Himself Love Man Open Personal Woman World
Your suffering is shaped exactly by your refusal to open.
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Open Refuse Suffering Yourself
Instant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to others.
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Enlightenment Happiness Yourself
But if we are truly happy inside, then age brings with it a maturity, a depth, and a power that only magnifies our radiance.
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Age Happiness Maturity Ourselves Radiant True
Masculine and feminine aspects exist in all beings.
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Existence Spirituality
Live with your lips pressed against your fears, kissing your fears, neither pulling back nor aggressively violating them.
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Fear Kiss Lips Live Violate Yourself
When you are in love with a man or a woman, the love you feel does not come from him or her; it is the love flowing from you own heart that you feel. Your partner is simply giving you an excuse to love. Love is always found flowing in your heart, not in your family, lover, career or art.
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Art Career Family Feeling Love Lover Man Simplicity Woman Yourself
We eventually learn that emotional closure is our own action. We can be responsible for it. In any moment, we can choose to open or to close.
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Action Choice Emotion Learning Moments Open
A man with a weak Masculine is especially prone to despise and fear these qualities and may attempt to suppress the more destructive elements of the Feminine force in his partner.
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Destruction Fear Force Himself Man Weakness
Masculine anger is always because you are feeling constrained, trapped by life. Feminine anger is always because you are feeling unloved.
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Angry Feeling Life Love Yourself
Every moment of your life is either a test or a celebration.
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Celebration Life Moments Test
The superior man is not seeking fulfillment through work and woman, because he is already full. For him, work and intimacy are opportunities to give his gifts, and to be vanished in the bliss of giving.
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Fulfill Himself Intimate Man Opportunity Seek Work
You are either withholding your love in fear or giving your deepest gifts.
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Deep Fear Gift Love Yourself
If your purpose is to liberate yourself and others into love and freedom, then you should do whatever magnifies the love and freedom in your life and in the lives of whom your actions affect.
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Action Affect Freedom Liberty Love Purpose Yourself
Infinite Love is who we really are and who we refuse to be. This refusal is our most essential tension.
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Essential Love Ourselves Stress

When you are in love with a man or a woman, the love you feel does not come from him or her; it is the love flowing from you own heart that you feel. Your partner is simply giving you an excuse to love. Love is always found flowing in your heart, not in your family, lover, career or art.

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When you are in love with a man or a woman, the love you feel does not come from him or her; it is the love flowing from you own heart that you feel. Your partner is simply giving you an excuse to love. Love is always found flowing in your heart, not in your family, lover, career or art.

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