“You are either withholding your love in fear or giving your deepest gifts.”

But if we are truly happy inside, then age brings with it a maturity, a depth, and a power that only magnifies our radiance.

The way a man penetrates the world should be the same way he penetrates his woman: not merely for personal gain or pleasure, but to magnify love, openness, and depth.

Your heart knows the truth of openness and suffers the tense lie of your closure.

You should do whatever feels right in your deepest heart. Feel deep as consciousness, open as water, now, and feel how to live with a wide-open heart. Feel how to live as love without bondage.

Spiritual practice is the capacity to offer your love even when you feel hurt, closed down, tense, angry, misunderstood, or hated.

We eventually learn that emotional closure is our own action. We can be responsible for it. In any moment, we can choose to open or to close.

Knowing the Truth is Fairly Useless. Feeling it is Profound. Living it Makes All the Difference.

Whereas women are most turned on by a man’s depth of presence, men are most turned on by a woman’s radiance and energy: how she moves, moans, smiles, and opens in love.

Infinite Love is who we really are and who we refuse to be. This refusal is our most essential tension.

Every moment of your life is either a test or a celebration.

Chronic dissatisfaction is how you sense that you are living a lie.

You’ll never get what you really want. All you can do is give what you really want!

We must see that we are afraid of the thing we most desire, and so we live a mediocre life, never bringing to consummation the primary impulse of our heart.

A fearful man who knows he is fearful is far more trustable than a fearful man who isn’t aware of his fear.

Instant enlightenment is to give all your happiness away to others.

Men who have lived significant lives are men who never waited: not for money, security, ease, or women.