Even for a girl like me, then, there comes a day when she can stop surviving and start living. To survive, you have to look good or talk good. But to end your story well– here is the truth– you have to talk yourself out of it.
CHRIS CLEAVEThe reason why I love people, and writing about them, is because they don’t always respond with hate and anger. If they did I wouldn’t have a story to tell. Who wants to know about someone who was brutalised and became brutal? I’m interested in the exceptions.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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I planned how I would kill myself in the time of Churchill (stand under bombs), Victoria (throw myself under a horse), and Henry the Eighth (marry Henry the Eighth)- Little Bee
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I am a woman built upon the wreckage of myself.
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I’m not happy with just repeating myself.
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At this point in time the war [ WWII] is close enough to still feel hotly personal to a writer, yet far enough away so that jingoism and heroics are no longer required.
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I’m always determined that as a novelist I’m going to go out there and research my characters very thoroughly before I start writing.
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And thus love makes fools of us all.
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Death, of course, is a refuge. It’s where you go when a new name, or a mask and cape, can no longer hide you from yourself. It’s where you run to when none of the principalities of your conscience will grant you asylum.
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I think, in common with a lot of novelists, I wasn’t the most athletic guy at school.
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Sometimes we don’t notice that someone is being brave, because they are only doing something that seems quite easy for us.
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I think bravery means a different thing to everyone.
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This thing with being lovers, it isn’t like being married.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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To be well in your mind you have first to be free.
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Psychiatry in this place is like serving an in-flight meal in the middle of a plane crash. If I wanted to make you well, as a doctor, I should be giving you a parachute, not a cheese-and-pickle sandwich.
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We were exiles from reality that summer. We were refugees from ourselves.
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