Psychiatry in this place is like serving an in-flight meal in the middle of a plane crash. If I wanted to make you well, as a doctor, I should be giving you a parachute, not a cheese-and-pickle sandwich.
CHRIS CLEAVEThe reason why I love people, and writing about them, is because they don’t always respond with hate and anger. If they did I wouldn’t have a story to tell. Who wants to know about someone who was brutalised and became brutal? I’m interested in the exceptions.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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At this point in time the war [ WWII] is close enough to still feel hotly personal to a writer, yet far enough away so that jingoism and heroics are no longer required.
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I’m a much better writer for being a father.
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WWII was, without exaggeration, the biggest event in all of human history, and it is still within living memory.
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I think bravery means a different thing to everyone.
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Andrew had a gift for deepening the incision he began.
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Sometimes we don’t notice that someone is being brave, because they are only doing something that seems quite easy for us.
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Death, of course, is a refuge. It’s where you go when a new name, or a mask and cape, can no longer hide you from yourself. It’s where you run to when none of the principalities of your conscience will grant you asylum.
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This is the forked tongue of grief again. It whispers in one ear: return to what you once loved best, and in the other ear it whispers, move on.
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If I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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There’s what people say, and there’s what people mean, and I like to explore the difference between the two.
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My paternal grandmother drove ambulances during the regional Blitz, in Birmingham.
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And thus love makes fools of us all.
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Even for a girl like me, then, there comes a day when she can stop surviving and start living. To survive, you have to look good or talk good. But to end your story well– here is the truth– you have to talk yourself out of it.
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I’m not happy with just repeating myself.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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