This thing with being lovers, it isn’t like being married.
CHRIS CLEAVEWe no longer need to show people being brave: instead, we can examine how they became brave. We can assume that they didn’t start out that way. If we allow that they started out just like us, then their journey into courage becomes both more fascinating and more impressive.
More Chris Cleave Quotes
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I know that the hopes of this whole human world can fit inside one soul.
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I planned how I would kill myself in the time of Churchill (stand under bombs), Victoria (throw myself under a horse), and Henry the Eighth (marry Henry the Eighth)- Little Bee
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Things that we have to really dare ourselves to do come quite naturally to others.
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[My maternal grandmother ] was a teacher in London and elsewhere during the war, although the children she taught were not the “lost children” who feature in the novel – those come from my research.
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WWII was, without exaggeration, the biggest event in all of human history, and it is still within living memory.
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If I could not smile, I think my situation would be even more serious.
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The reason why I love people, and writing about them, is because they don’t always respond with hate and anger. If they did I wouldn’t have a story to tell. Who wants to know about someone who was brutalised and became brutal? I’m interested in the exceptions.
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If I can’t write it would be as if I died.
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Still shaking, in the pew, I understood that it isn’t the dead we cry for. We cry for ourselves, and I didn’t deserve my own pity.
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I’m a much better writer for being a father.
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Horror in your country is something you take a dose of to remind yourself that you are not suffering from it.
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A scar is never ugly. That is what the scar makers want us to think. A scar does not form on the dying. A scar means, I survived.
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I think, in common with a lot of novelists, I wasn’t the most athletic guy at school.
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I am a woman built upon the wreckage of myself.
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Yet war doesn’t end with armistice, it only ends with forgiveness and reconciliation.
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