The way to truly help someone is for me to not get immersed in their suffering.
BYRON KATIEWhen you think that someone or something other than yourself needs to change, you’re mentally out of your business.
More Byron Katie Quotes
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The opening to reality, as it really is, is beauty.
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If you think the cause of your problem is ‘out there,’ you’ll try to solve it from the outside. Take the shortcut: solve it from within.
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Here’s how a child listens: you tell him something, and he puts his own interpretation on what you said. That’s what he hears. No one has ever heard you.
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I love the world, because I love the mind that created the world.
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The nature of mind is that it loves everything once it loves itself, just as it opposes everything when it opposes itself.
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In my experience, we don’t make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn’t personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.
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Place only your kindest thoughts on everything you experience today. Meet yourself.
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I have never experienced a stressful feeling that wasn’t caused by attaching to an untrue thought. Behind every uncomfortable feeling, there’s a thought that isn’t true for us.
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Until you can love what is – everything, including the apparent violence and craziness – you’re separate from the world, and you’ll see it as dangerous and frightening.
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Nothing belongs to me. Everything comes and goes. Serenity is an open door.
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Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment, neither too soon nor too late. You don’t have to like it. It’s just easier if you do.
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Our job is unconditional love. The job of everyone else in our life is to push our buttons.
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If you want real control, drop the illusion of control; let life have you. It does anyway. You’re just telling yourself the story of how it doesn’t.
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That’s what every uncomfortable feeling is for-that’s what pain is for, what money is for, what everything in the world is for: your self-realization.
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Forgiveness is discovering that what you thought happened, didn’t.
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